The following are just some of the excerpts
from the dozens of e-mails, faxes and letters sent to The Sun News
from Grand Strand residents whose lives were touched by the late
U.S. Sen. Strom Thurmond.
"I knew Strom's wife, Nancy Moore, before they were married. ...
I remember the time that Strom catered to Nancy's greatest wish and
bought her a convertible. At that time, my late husband and I owned
a restaurant in Columbia called The Bounty, and we were all gathered
for a family dinner, waiting for the senator's arrival. Strom barely
knew how to drive, as he was always driven. With a mixture of horror
and laughter, we watched Strom trying to park the car. It took about
five minutes. After dinner, I will never forget the sight of Strom
and Nancy and their four children, top down, everyone screaming
except Strom, as he tried to navigate out of the parking lot. He
took down several fence posts, and I think he might have left a few
fender dents."
- Kathryn "Kitty" Inabinet Vickery
"Gov. J. Strom Thurmond appointed me to fill out my late father's
term as magistrate in Sumter County in October of 1949. I was the
first woman magistrate at that time. The next year was an election
year, and three men ran for the position. I got approval from my
husband, H. Knute Delk, who was working toward his doctoral degree
at Columbia University. I asked Gov. Strom if I should run again.
His response was: 'If a pretty lady can't beat three men, then this
country is in bad shape.' I was re-elected and served as county
magistrate until 1951. I resigned when Jimmy Byrnes was governor. We
moved to another part of the state, as my husband had accepted a
high-school principal's job. We knew Strom and his wife, Jean
Crouch, well, as she and my husband were both from Barnwell County.
Even though my husband played football at USC and Strom was a
Clemson graduate, Jean always invited us over to the Governor's
Mansion for sandwiches on 'Big Thursday.' Strom was 20 years older
than me, and he has lived a good, full life. I am flying the U.S.
flag that Sen. Thurmond had sent to me from the capital for my 70th
birthday."
- Lila B. Delk, Garden City
Beach
"Strom Thurmond was instrumental in getting President Bush to
send a letter of congratulations to my mother-in-law Jeanette Leach.
She turned 100 Sept. 15, 2002. God bless him!"
- Janet L. Leach, Murrells
Inlet
"I felt very lucky the day I opened the letter inviting me to
work one month in the Washington office of my U.S. senator.
"Sen. Thurmond's office was very helpful in arranging
accommodations and transportation from the airport.
"Prior to my arriving in Washington, the appointment had already
changed my life. It helped me get elected president of the student
body at Socastee in 1980. I left Myrtle Beach for Washington as
president. What a feeling!
"There are many memories. He asked me to call former S.C. Gov.
James Edwards so he could discuss the appointment of [Department of]
Energy secretary by President Reagan.
"One Saturday just me, the senator and his limo driver were in
the office. I was talking to former Sen. Hubert Humphrey's driver,
who was now working for Thurmond. The driver told me I would never
forget every thing I did up there, which is true. The senator let
his driver go home; he had things to do, and would stay a while yet
in the office. It is just the two of us.
"That's when he asked me to call Edwards. I had to speak to two
or three people before I actually spoke to the governor. I didn't
know the secretarial way to intercom him, so I simply put the
governor on hold and walked right into the plaque-covered office of
the senator and said, 'Senator, the governor is on the line.' What a
memory.
"I was hoping he'd give me a ride to my guest house four blocks
behind the Supreme Court. That was not to be, but I did walk down
the stairs with him.
"We headed to the limo together. I carried his briefcase, and he
carried a box of stuff. Opening the door to the vehicle, we put the
items in the back seat, and I watched as he settled into the car. He
asked me if I knew how to get the headlights on. I fiddled around,
but he figured it out first, as I squatted beside him on the
road.
"I remember visiting his house, watching little Strom jump on the
aerobic trampoline in the basement. Before that, the pages and
interns were sitting in his living room, when he walks in.
"What a big guy he was with the trench coat - big enough for all
the kids to jump on him like fleas.
"He could still walk with them hanging on!
"I took our newly manufactured school flag with me to Washington
to be photographed with the senator. I presented that flag, along
with the American flag flown over the Capitol, to my school.
"I hope Socastee High School still has that flag."
- Patrick L. Hill
"I first saw him when I was working at a Florence paper. He
reminded me of a Western movie star. He was something else. Won't be
another one like him."
- Tim Bullard, Conway
"My parents built a home in Windjammer Village, Little River, in
1980. It's a small, gated community on the Waterway near Calabash.
They decided to move there because it has a boat ramp and boat
storage.
Soon after they moved into their home, my dad learned that the
Corps of Engineers had refused to allow the property owners
association to build a fishing dock next to the boat ramp. Not once,
but many times.
"My dad called Strom Thurmond's office, explained the situation
and, suddenly, the Corps of Engineers had no problem with allowing a
dock permit. Since then, Windjammer Village has enjoyed their
fishing dock for over 20 years.
"Calling Strom Thurmond's office was like magic!"
- Liz Crotty
"In July 1968, I was assigned to Fort Hood, [Texas], after
returning from Vietnam. Since there was a uniform shortage, I wore
civilian clothes and was assigned to the barracks.
"After a few days, I went over to special service and applied for
a lifeguard job, as I was a former water safety instructor in
civilian life. They put me out at Lake Belton, where I was in charge
of eight other guards and had my own trailer on the lake, in which I
lived.
"After a few weeks, I decided to apply for an early out to go
back to college but kept getting turned down.
"I contacted my uncle, John Nye, and he, in turn, contacted our
local congressman, John McMillian, in Florence, but still was turned
down. Finally, he called Sen. Strom Thurmond's office. Early one
morning, I received a telephone call, and it was Sen. Thurmond. He
told me that he was informed the reason I could not get out of
service was that my presence was essential to the unit's mission,
and the mission was currently 'Garden Plot,' which was riot control
in big cities at that time. I then explained to Sen. Thurmond that I
was a lifeguard with no uniform other than a bathing suit.
"He and I hung up and, two hours later, here comes a major and
sergeant and, six hours later, I was on my way home to Cherry Grove
Beach. This process of discharge normally takes three to four
days.
"A few years later, I had the opportunity to see and talk with
Sen Thurmond at a stump meeting at Galivants Ferry. He remembered
me, and I thanked him profusely.
"He truly was a great man for the state and country."
- Johnnie Vereen, Pawleys
Island
"It was 1962, and I was asked to join the staff of Sen. Thurmond.
I had just finished a course in business school and [was] a little
scared of leaving my small town at the age of 19. I made my decision
to go and, in two days, I was on a train with $50 in my pocket and a
one-way ticket to Washington, D.C. The senator's office had reserved
a room for me in the Carroll Arms, right across the street from the
Old Senate Office Building. Some of the other ladies in his office
were looking for someone to share an apartment. I was not old enough
to sign the lease, and he said he would be responsible. Wow! I
settled in nicely and began a one-year tenure of one of the most
interesting times in my life. Many happy stories, but this is one I
remember most.
"A friend of Sen. Thurmond's had called and asked if someone from
the office could go to the airport and stay with his young son on an
hour wait for his next flight.
"I volunteered and was given the keys to his big, black Cadillac
and was on my way. Boy, I thought I was something - remember, this
[is] 1962. I found the airport and the child.
"Everything worked out, and I found my way back. Just one of my
experiences.
"I am now the age the senator was when I was there. How time
flies. My sincere condolences to his family. He was a fine statesman
and a gentleman."
- Pat Z. Bethea
"On Oct. 4, my daughter, Kian, and I had the opportunity to take
a picture with Sen. Thurmond as he arrived at the Richard B. Russell
Senate Building for work. He and Kian sat next to each other in
wheelchairs (she has cerebral palsy) holding hands while I put my
arm around his shoulder. I asked jokingly if it was OK for me to hug
him since I had heard he liked younger women. He said "yes."
- LaVonia B. Jackson, Myrtle
Beach
"Every visit to Washington had to include a visit to Strom's
office. Both the reception room and his office were very large, with
high ceilings. In both rooms, every inch, from the floor to the
ceiling, was covered with photographs and certificates. He kept a
full-time photographer and would pose for a photo with everyone who
came to visit. These would later go in the mail, personally signed
and individualized by the senator. Every recipient, of course,
became a lifelong supporter. He would give each visitor a gift as if
it was immensely expensive and important. To my knowledge, none of
them ever cost more than a nickel.
"However, to this day, I often examine and admire my 2-inch-long
tin box with a 'Vote for Strom' sticker on the bottom.
On several occasions, we joined Strom and Nancy in the Senate
dining room for lunch. Strom would order for himself and, without
pausing, would also order for Nancy. Every senator present,
including Fritz Hollings, would come over to pay respects to
Strom.
I will let my husband of 15 years, George, tell the last
story:
"My wife, Kitty, and I were ushered to our seats in the National
Cathedral in Washington. It was in September 2000, and the occasion
was the wedding of Strom and Nancy Thurmond's daughter, Julie.
The wedding was extremely important to Strom because he had lost
his oldest daughter in a car accident, and this would be the only
time he would act as an escort to the altar. Julie held him by one
arm and Strom Jr., held the other arm, with son Paul next to Julie.
The aisle must have been 200 yards long, but Strom made it all the
way, erect and proud. There was not a dry eye in the cathedral.
"The wedding reception was at the Corcoran Gallery of Art. After
dining from the massive tables at one end of the hall, everyone
crowded to the other end.
"There was a large dance floor and, behind it, a 20-piece
orchestra. At a given signal, Nancy brought her husband to the
center of the dance floor and left him to make a speech. With a mike
... and a very large audience at hand, Strom was at his best.
However, he was a little disoriented and began making his speech to
the band. Nancy returned swiftly and turned him toward the
audience.
"Making tiny steps as he turned, Strom didn't miss a beat as he
spoke about this great nation of ours. He ended his speech with a
warning to the groom-to-be:
"'You treat my daughter right, young man, or you'll have to
answer to me!'"
- Kathryn "Kitty" Inabinet Vickery and
George Vickery
"In March 1982, tornadoes went through our great state. I was
living in Cheraw at the time, and I volunteered my services at the
high school in Bennettsville, where they had set up shelter for
people left homeless by the devastation.
"Sen. Thurmond and his wife and staff came down to view the
devastation and to bring hope and prayers for those who lost so
much. He told me if there was anything he or his staff could do, to
just ask. After talking with Sen. Thurmond, I knew in some way he
not only touched my life from his encouragement but also many more
who were striving to overcome such loss."
- Pat Mullins, Myrtle Beach
"I had called the senator's office a few weeks prior and advised
that I was graduating from the FBI's National Academy at Quantico,
[Va.], that morning and that my family and I would like to stop by
as part of our tour of a few of the Washington, D.C., sights. I was
informed that Friday afternoons are not known to be particularly
good times for U.S. Capitol visits because most congressmen are
through with their work after lunch Friday. I was impressed by the
interest his office took in my particular situation, and I assured
them that anything his office could do to make our visit a little
more memorable would be greatly appreciated.
"When we walked in the senator's office that afternoon, we were
very warmly welcomed with: 'Mr. and Mrs. Frontz, we are so glad that
you could make it here this afternoon.' Before we could get over the
surprise of being greeted by our name, we were then told, 'The
senator has been waiting to meet you.' "In short order, we were
taken into Sen. Thurmond's office, where he immediately
congratulated me for my attendance at the FBI National Academy and
then made it a point to advise my son that he should be proud of a
father who has dedicated himself to being a public servant as a
career police officer. The gracious senator was also quick to
include my wife into the conversation. At his direction, our family
posed with him behind his desk and a staff member took the
photograph that is attached.
"The senator also arranged for one of his staff members to give
us a private tour of the U.S. Capitol on that afternoon. Our family
will never forget how Sen. Strom Thurmond made us feel that, because
we were S.C. citizens, we were the most important people in the
world to him on that day. I no longer had to wonder why he won all
of the elections he had to make him the longest-serving congressman
in our nation's history!"
- Bill Frontz, captain, Myrtle Beach
Police Department
"When I was young, I had a morning paper route. Strom Thurmond
was a young lawyer in the 1930s in Edgefield, and he was my
customer.
"My memory is that his office was a very modest, two-room house a
couple of houses north of the courthouse. I never saw a secretary in
the office.
"I was always glad to collect from Mr. Thurmond. He would
occasionally give me a quarter and tell me to keep the change. No
one else ever did that. Money was close in those days."
- Robert Griffith, Myrtle Beach
"During the 1960s, when I was the pastor of Plymouth Haven
Baptist Church in Alexandria, Va., Harry Dent, Sen. Thurmond's
administrative assistant, 1957-1969, and his family were members of
our church. On one occasion, Harry asked me to come over to Capitol
Hill because he wanted to introduce me to Sen. Thurmond. When I went
to his office, Harry said: 'Senator, this is my preacher.' Sen.
Thurmond walked toward me and, as he got near where I was standing,
he flipped open his coat and pulled out one of many ballpoint pens.
He extended to me a pen with his name on it. As I took it, he also
reached out to shake my hand, saying, 'Reverend, always remember to
give them something and press the flesh.'"
- Charles Nunn, Pawleys Island
"In 1996, I volunteered for Strom Thurmond. During that campaign,
Sen. Thurmond spent most of one day as the grand marshal of the
Loris Bog-Off Festival. My job that day was to follow him around and
give everyone he talked to an 'I Love Strom' sticker. We had nearly
800 of them.
"The people in Loris just flocked to him like he was a rock star.
He ran completely out of stickers but kept on shaking hands. As the
day wore on, he and I got to talking about eating healthy and
exercise and always having a positive mental attitude. He walked all
over the town, hugged and got his picture taken with the Loris
Bog-Off beauty queen and gave a great old fashioned stump speech.
...
"What really stood out that day were the people who came up to
thank him for some favor or help he had given them or a relative. It
happened over and over all day long. ...
"When the campaign ended, I decided to write Sen. Thurmond to ask
for his advice on seeking public office. The letter he wrote me
stressed education, helping others and a faith in God. ...
"There will never be another Strom Thurmond."
- Randal Wallace, Myrtle Beach councilman
"About 10 years ago at a Veterans Day parade in Dillon, a judge
introduced my father, then age 70, to Strom and told Strom my father
would be his driver. My dad came prepared for Strom with a blanket
and a pillow, thinking Strom might be cold and surely wouldn't sit
on top of the back seat of our old Cadillac convertible. Strom took
one look at my dad and said, 'Son, I have to sit up top so everyone
can see me.' My dad never drove so carefully as he did that day. He
also never forgot that at age 70, there was someone still around to
call him 'son.'"
- Tommy Samaha, Little River
"In 1972, my father was killed in a tractor accident on our farm
in Indiantown. My brother was in the Air Force stationed in Vietnam.
No one could get in touch with him. For five days, we held up the
funeral hoping to hear from him. On the sixth day, I called Strom's
office and told the story to his aide. Within five hours, Strom
called me back personally and told me my brother would be home
within 16 hours. A plane flew him to Charleston Air Force Base. Then
he took a private plane to within a mile of our home. The funeral
took place the next day."
- Ken Blanton, Conway
"In Williamsburg, Va., in 1964, Sen. Thurmond was an invited
speaker at The College of William and Mary's newly constructed Phi
Beta Kappa Memorial Hall. Virginia Sen. Harry Flood Byrd and others
were on the stage of the 400-plus-seat auditorium. The program topic
is lost to memory, but not what follows.
"Several male college students seated in the front row of the
audience disagreed with Sen. Thurmond's views. A bag of popcorn
appeared, and several young men began to toss popcorn in the
senator's direction; some landed on his shoes, some landed on his
lap. I was the assistant dean of men at the time - they were male
students who were disrupting the program and being disrespectful to
a campus guest. The college president signalled to me to take
action.
"As I strode toward the stage and the row of popcorn tossers,
Strom Thurmond calmly gathered the popcorn that had landed on his
lap and, smiling, placed them in his mouth. The audience
applauded.
"Sen. Thurmond grinned broadly and nodded to the audience. The
popcorn bag disappeared, order was restored and the program
continued. Strom Thurmond made new friends that day, and I have the
special memory of the senator from South Carolina winking at me
while he munched popcorn in Williamsburg, Va."
- Bob Squatriglia, Conway
"I worked my first campaign for Sen. Thurmond in 1970, when I was
12 years old. He knew my whole family. I remember when I saw him in
1995 at the opening of Broadway at the Beach. Once he clued in who
you were, he could remember all the way back. He could remember
family members from 30 or 40 years ago. That was part of his charm,
that he knew everybody and remembered things about them."
- Mary Henry, Myrtle Beach
"My family was one of those thousands of lives touched by Sen.
Strom Thurmond. My sister, the late Estelline P. Walker, who served
as executive secretary of the S.C. State Library Board, came to know
Sen. Thurmond through funding and budget concerns for the libraries
of South Carolina for more than 40 years. The first call I received
upon my sister's death in 1984 was from Sen. Thurmond. His tribute
to my sister's service to the state of South Carolina truly touched
my heart, and his compassion and leadership will be forever
remembered. We have lost one of the last great Southern
Americans.
- Billie Walker Tingle, Asheville, N.C.
"My one opportunity to meet Sen. Thurmond came in the fall of
1996, when as part of his final campaign, he visited the city of
Loris during the annual Bog-Off Festival. I remember vividly how he
greeted me with a very firm handshake and talked enthusiastically
about our city and the fact that he and I both were lawyers. Later
in the day, he was in the middle of the festival shaking hands,
talking and posing for many pictures. Clearly, he was having a great
time, and the people loved him. He was quite amazing for a man
almost 94 years old. It became obvious to me on that October day
that Strom Thurmond's genuine interest in the everyday person made
him South Carolina's greatest politician ever."
- Michael E. Suggs, Loris city councilman
"Throughout 20 years in the Coast Guard and at every time since,
a call or letter to Sen. Strom Thurmond was answered promptly, and
action followed soon after. He was truly a people's man and will be
sorely missed.
- W.C. Mintz, Little River
"In 1957, I needed an assignment in the Air Force Reserves. I
wrote him on Monday and got a reply on Friday of the same week. The
following week, I received my assignment to Myrtle Beach Air Force
Base. This man could make things happen.
- Robert Fogner