COLUMBIA--Marva Grayson was set on fire at a
Columbia gas station by her husband in front of her 10-year-old son. Anise
Hall was stabbed by her husband in Darlington County as she held her
14-month-old child.
They were two of the 30 women killed in domestic violence incidents in
South Carolina in 2002.
All of them, along with thousands of unnamed victims, were remembered
Wednesday in a ceremony at the Statehouse that coincides with the
beginning of Domestic Violence Awareness month.
Attorney General Henry McMaster read the names and a brief recounting
of what happened to each woman as a chime rang every nine seconds marking
how often the FBI says a woman is beaten in the United States.
Organizers also honored two Beaufort County deputies killed in January
2002 as they responded to a domestic violence call.
The ceremony took place less than a week after a study by the Violence
Policy Center reported South Carolina topped the nation in the rate of
women killed by men.
The Palmetto State also topped the list in 1998 and hasn't fallen out
of the top five in the past five years.
"We all have a responsibility to end these senseless deaths," said
McMaster, who has made fighting domestic violence one of his top
priorities since taking office earlier this year.
Lined behind McMaster and the other speakers were red silhouettes,
representing each of the victims and one representing victims whose names
are not known.
The line stretched the length of the back steps of the Statehouse.
The roll call included a teenage girl from Cherokee County killed by
her boyfriend after he pulled a gun on her when she told him she wanted to
stop arguing and 43-year-old Ernestine Smith, stabbed to death by her
husband in Chester County just hours after police had been called to their
home.
A number of the victims left behind children, which makes the tragedy
even worse, said Rep. Gilda Cobb-Hunter, D-Orangeburg.
If South Carolina continues to top the domestic violence list, the
state will create another generation of batterers and victims, said
Cobb-Hunter, a victims' advocate for 25 years.
Communities need to do whatever they can to stop domestic violence,
"whether that is not tolerating jokes or whether that is recognizing that
it is our business," she said.
About 100 people attended the ceremony.
Some were family members of victims, clutching pictures and other
mementos of their loved ones.