Barnwell -- After he heard his friend Staff Sgt. George
Edward Buggs had been killed in Iraq, Ondrew Bellinger found himself
taking long, solitary drives in his car.
"I don't like to show my emotions, so I'd get in the car and
start crying."
After several of these tearful drives, Bellinger said he imagined
Buggs was in the passenger's seat, like he had been so many times
before when they were growing up here.
"I just started talking as if he was there," said Bellinger. "He
told me, 'Drew this is going to be your last cry,' and it was."
Bellinger was one of more than 500 who came to Barnwell's
Guinyard-Butler Middle School Saturday for the funeral of the
31-year-old soldier.
Buggs, 31, was last seen alive March 23 near the Iraqi city of
Nasiriyah. His body was recovered when U.S. troops rescued injured
Army Pfc. Jessica Lynch from a hospital in that city. Buggs
posthumously was awarded a Purple Heart and promoted to staff
sergeant.
Buggs is the first South Carolina soldier confirmed killed in the
war in Iraq. He is survived by his wife, Wanda, and his son,
Guy.
Addressing Buggs' 12-year-old son, Gov. Mark Sanford said, "I
didn't know your father ... but I'm impressed by the trail he left
behind. He's an example for everyone in this state and in this
country."
Sanford presented Guy with a U.S. flag that flew over the State
House in his father's honor.
"I'd like to think that George is smiling somewhere at seeing the
statues of Saddam pulled down by jubilant Iraqis," said Maj. Gen.
Daniel Mongeon. "He was an American hero.
"Guy, your father is my hero."
'A COMMA, NOT A PERIOD'
In his eulogy, the Rev. Sam Davis, consoled the Buggs family by
telling them they would see Buggs again, in heaven.
"This is a comma, not a period," said Davis, minister of a
Augusta, Ga., church and a family friend.
Buggs was buried at Barnwell's Hope Memorial Park. A bugler
played taps, soldiers fired a 21-volley salute and Mongeon presented
Buggs' family with a U.S. flag.
Afterward, family and friends returned to the school for a buffet
dinner.
"I'm just trying to get my head clear," said Wanda Buggs, adding
that she appreciated "everyone for coming out and showing their
support."
Yvonne Buggs, the late soldier's mother, clutched a framed
picture of her son to her chest. "He never was negative. He was
always positive," she told a friend.
And that was how Buggs' friends remembered him Saturday.
"He was always there if you needed a shoulder to cry on," said
Wanda Hallinquest Johnson, who graduated with Buggs from Barnwell
High School in 1990.
"I remember when I was getting divorced, five years ago," she
said. "He called and helped me get through that. He said he'd always
be there for me."
Bellinger said two things stuck out from his car rides with
Buggs.
"He told me once, 'Drew, I love the Army. They'll have to kick me
out if they want to get rid of me.'
"And Guy," Bellinger said, addressing Buggs' son, "he thought you
were one of the wonders of the world."
'THIS LITTLE TOWN HAS ONE OF THEM'
Danny Black was one of several veterans who attended the
funeral.
"We came here to honor a fallen comrade," said Black, president
of Barnwell's chapter of the Vietnam Veterans Association.
Black carried a folder with the names of 896 South Carolinians
who had died in Vietnam. "As long as we're alive, the soldiers that
have died by our side will also live," he said.
"This community has always banded together," said Black, who once
was Buggs' neighbor.
"One hundred Americans have died in Iraq. And this little town of
6,000 has one of them," he said.
"It's the least we can do to make sure he's honored."