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Article published Jun 28, 2003
Donald Russell's widow dies
JANET S. SPENCER
Staff Writer
Former South Carolina
first lady Virginia Russell died Friday at her home on Otis Boulevard after an
extended illness.
Mrs. Russell was the widow of the Honorable Donald S.
Russell who was governor from 1963 to 1965 and then served as a federal
judge.
In addition to numerous contributions to her community and the
dedication to her family, she is remembered for her role as first lady of the
state as well as of the University of South Carolina when her husband was
president there.
While living in the governor's mansion, Mrs. Russell noticed
state seals that had been painted over for many years on the mantle in a large
drawing room.
She is credited with having the seals uncovered and brought out
in gold relief. They remain that way today.
Mrs. Russell also was responsible
for first encouraging tours of the mansion.
Her neighbors, Mary and Thomas
Stokes, remember moving to their new residence in Spartanburg as the youngest
couple on the street and Mrs. Russell opening her home to them.
"She was a
genteel Southern lady. I always felt she was so thoughtful of others from the
first time she welcomed us to her home and the neighborhood," Mrs. Stokes said.
"She always went out of her way to be thoughtful of other people."
Stokes
agreed with his wife. "Mrs. Russell was certainly a lady in the finest tradition
of the word," he said.
"Mr. and Mrs. Russell were wonderful people."
John
Edmunds, who had been friends with the Russells for 45 years, recalls being a
student at USC when the Russells were there.
Mrs. Russell decorated his
fraternity house and invited every student to dinner their freshman and senior
years.
"She loved the university. She was a very brilliant, well-read woman.
She could converse with you on any subject. She kept up with current events,"
Edmunds said.
After returning to Spartanburg, for
many years Edmunds had
dinner weekly with the Russells at the Piedmont Club.
"She was witty and
charming. And although she had been in declining health for some time, I'm gonna
miss her," Edmunds said.
For 11 years, Mrs. Russell had also won the hearts
of caregivers who often called her "pretty lady."
Martina Smalley is a
registered nurse and director of Professional Nursing Services that provided
around-the-clock care for Mrs. Russell at the Russell residence.
Smalley said
she and the three nurses who rotated the duties were deeply saddened by Mrs.
Russell's death.
"She was such a warm and gracious lady. In the 11 years we
were privileged to care for her, we came to love her as if she were our own
mother," Smalley said.
Smalley described a mutual strong bond of trust and
respect which she and the nurses shared with Mrs. Russell.
"She was very
appreciative of everyone's kindness and thoughtfulness. She had a way of making
everyone feel special," Smalley said.
The caregivers recall how Mrs. Russell
eagerly let it be known how much her husband and family meant to her.
"The
saddest time in her life was when she lost her husband, and the saddest time in
all our nursing careers is the loss of such a grand and gracious lady," Smalley
said.
Caring for Mrs. Russell was described by Smalley as a once in a
lifetime experience.
"And it's one we will never forget," she said.
Among
Mrs. Russell's survivors are sons, John of Spartanburg, Don of Columbia and
Scott Russell of Houston, Texas.
Funeral arrangements will be announced by
the Lanford-Pollard Funeral Home.
Janet Spencer can be reached at 562-7222 or
janet.spencer@shj.com.