x-sender: governor.haley@sc.lmhostediq.com x-receiver: governor.haley@sc.lmhostediq.com Received: from mail pickup service by sc.lmhostediq.com with Microsoft SMTPSVC; Thu, 9 Jun 2016 13:31:07 -0400 thread-index: AdHCdLTCFC7xMiJiRda2kpYxnM/acg== Thread-Topic: Elder abuse and family court From: To: Subject: Elder abuse and family court Date: Thu, 9 Jun 2016 13:31:07 -0400 Message-ID: MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Mailer: Microsoft CDO for Windows 2000 Content-Class: urn:content-classes:message Importance: normal Priority: normal X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.1.7601.17609 X-OriginalArrivalTime: 09 Jun 2016 17:31:07.0667 (UTC) FILETIME=[B4DA8630:01D1C274] CUSTOM Ms Nancy T White Ms 1599 Tom Steven Road --- Rock Hill SC 29730 catawba_queen@hotmail.com 8034171589 8034171589 SCHED Elder abuse and family court 67.197.128.11 Good afternoon Governor Haley, I am writing to ask you as my representative for help. Family court laws for our state desperately need to updated. I am the mother of two adult children with families of there own. First I would like to tell you about my son who after six years of marriage he found out that his wife was having an affair. He did leave the home. He did so because he did not want their children to witness anymore of the drama. He really thought that he would be back in the home in a matter of a couple of weeks. But that was not the case. August will be one year. In that time he has been put through the ringer. She has the kids and receives over half of his pay. He only has me his mother and his sister. Even though my granddaughter spent three summers with me she is no longer allowed to be with me. I have Borderline personality disorder and have attempted suicide. But I have never hurt anyone but myself I have been in weekly therapy for over three years. I have made tremendous progress in my treatment. My son can not afford to live on his own. Even though he is in our National Guard, was a volunteer firefighter. One of only a few that is actually qualified to enter a burning structure. To save lives. He has an attorney who has done her job. My son has always lived in Rock Hill. He has now moved out of state because of all the drama and having no where to live. Please help me to understand why a father who loves his children and wants to be with his children can not. He did not break up his marriage but yet he is the one who is being punished. So are his children who love and miss their daddy. My daughter who has two children of her own has lost custody of her children. I believe the only reason that the father was given custody is because she could not get legal representation in time. You see my daughter's ex has always been mentally abusive to her lied to the court in his the accusations against my daughter. My daughter is a good momma. When my daughter's divorce was over she moved in with my mother. To help her. My oldest sister was her power of attorney until it was discovered that she had robbed our Mother blind. My daughter and stepsister were appointed and my sister was notified. She was advised to return all of our Mothers papers. She did not. My sister and my Mother's other daughter harassed my Mother and daughter constantly. I apologize for rambling but so much is going on. I would love to set an appointment to talk to you face to face. The current family and probate courts have serious problems. When my mother was alive and she was trying to get back what was stolen no one would help. My sister stole over $30,000.00 from our Mother. Now we are told that there is no victim. Please help my family. I believe that my daughter's children were stolen by our family court system. Her ex husband, his mother, his sister and her best friend who is now married to my daughter's ex made of accusations that were not true and were not proven. They all lied. I know that in the state of Michigan children can not be removed by hearsay. The state was sued and new laws were enacted to keep this from happening. I pray for your help. My grandchildren are in perils over this. We need your help. I am the product of a broken home and it greatly effected me and I don't want my grandchildren to be effected by by irresponsible ex's. Please may I have an appointment. This has to change. Thanking you in advance for your quick response in this matter.