Breasts are made for feeding children -- not just
filling out lacy lingerie.
That was the message from the Lowcountry mothers who gathered Thursday
morning outside Victoria's Secret at the Mount Pleasant Towne Centre for a
"nurse-in" supporting the of rights for women who breast-feed.
Toting signs bearing messages such as "The Secret's out ... Victoria
supports Breasts, but not Breastfeeding" and "Nursing in the Bathroom
Stinks!," about 25 women nursed their babies on the sidewalk underneath
the store's pink-and-white striped awnings as the business opened for the
day.
The women were galvanized by the experience of Lori Rueger, who several
weeks ago was denied access to a Victoria's Secret dressing room in which
to nurse her 10-week-old daughter. Rueger said she was asked to go next
door to the public bathroom at Old Navy, a setting nursing moms call
unsanitary and uncomfortable for them and their babies.
The women's efforts now have received backing from state Rep. Chip
Limehouse, R-Charleston, who plans to introduce a bill during the next
legislative session that would protect the rights of nursing mothers in
any public place they have a right to be. More than 35 other states have
similar laws.
He authored a similar bill in the late 1990s, at a time when about 20
states offered protection to nursing mothers. That bill never passed.
"I guess at the time, the Legislature wasn't in a progressive frame of
mind," said Limehouse, who has two children. "Well, no longer do we have
to worry about being progressive. We just have to catch up with the rest
of the country."
Demonstrators at Thursday's event said any stance that limits the
rights of moms who breast-feed reveals hypocrisy within the Palmetto
State's political system, long a champion of conservative family values.
"I don't understand, in a state like South Carolina, where values and
families are so important, why this is even an issue," said Jania Sommers,
who has two grown daughters but came to the nurse-in to support moms who
breast-feed. "It's crazy that a national company who sells women's bodies
says it's not OK to do with your body what God intended it to do."
Few of the women at the nurse-in, who ranged in age from early 20s to
middle-age, have ever served as political activists before, but many said
Rueger's troubles hit so close to home they felt compelled to join the
demonstration.
In fact, nurse-in organizer Kella McCue, a Ladson mother of two, said
she and others have formed Lowcountry Lactivists to make women who
breast-feed aware of their rights and to organize nurse-ins at places that
deny mothers the right to nurse their children.
Many of the mothers at the event brought along their toddlers, some of
whom they nursed in chairs outside the store alongside moms feeding
newborn infants. Some of the children wore outfits spreading the word
about the benefits of breast-feeding.
One little girl carried a baby doll in a tiny sling and sported a pink
T-shirt that said, "Smart, Cute and Healthy Thanks to Mom's Milk,"
alluding to studies that have found breast-feeding spurs brain growth,
boosts immunity and decreases a child's risk of developing allergies.
"Baby on Strike -- Don't Make Me Eat on the Potty," read the hand-lettered
shirt one toddler wore as she played at her mother's feet.
Towne Centre's general manager, Joe Boyd, said the nurse-in was the
first activist demonstration the shopping center has seen so far. When
Victoria's Secret employees said they worried the nurse-in was hurting
business, Boyd asked the women to relocate to another area of the complex,
though Mount Pleasant police on hand said the women were not legally
obligated to move.
"We support breast-feeding," Boyd said, explaining that, in the absence
of a state law, it's up to individual businesses to decide how to handle
shoppers' nursing needs.
Officials with Limited Brands, the parent company for Victoria's
Secret, denied that Rueger was asked to leave the store to nurse, but
previously had stated that she "became combative" when a clerk "suggested
she might be more comfortable" in the restroom.
"As far as we're considered, this is a misunderstanding, and we're
sorry it's gotten to this," said Anthony Hebron, a company spokesman.
"We've always been very accommodating to our customers and will continue
to do that."
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends breast-feeding over
feeding babies with formula and encourages new moms to nurse until babies
are at least 1 year old.
Nicole LaVallee, a licensed homebirth midwife who attended the
nurse-in, said stories such as Rueger's only add to the hurdles South
Carolina faces in encouraging new moms to nurse.
Despite myriad economic and child health problems that doctors say can
be helped by nursing, the state has one of the lowest breast-feeding rates
in the nation, she said.
Limehouse said he hopes the Victoria's Secret demonstration will serve
as "a spark plug" for getting nursing rights on the legislative agenda
next year.
"This is a no-brainer, and we've got to, as a society, say it's OK,
it's a good thing for us to promote," he said. "It has too many positive
attributes to list, so what is the big deal? It's a mother, it's a child,
it's a natural thing."