COLUMBIA, S.C. - Marva Grayson was set on fire
at a Columbia gas station by her husband in front of her 10-year-old
son. Anise Hall was stabbed by her husband in Darlington County as
she held her 14-month-old child.
They were two of the 30 women killed in domestic violence
incidents in South Carolina in 2002. All of them, along with
thousands of unnamed victims, were remembered Wednesday in a
ceremony at the Statehouse that coincides with the beginning of
Domestic Violence Awareness month.
Attorney General Henry McMaster read the names and a brief
recounting of what happened to each woman as a chime rang every nine
seconds marking how often the FBI says a woman is beaten in the
United States.
Organizers also honored two Beaufort County deputies killed in
January 2002 as they responded to a domestic violence call.
The ceremony took place less than a week after a study by the
Violence Policy Center reported South Carolina topped the nation in
the rate of women killed by men. The Palmetto State also topped in
list in 1998 and hasn't fallen out of the top five in the past five
years.
"We all have a responsibility to end these senseless deaths,"
said McMaster, who has made fighting domestic violence one of his
top priorities since taking office earlier this year.
Lined behind McMaster and the other speakers were red
silhouettes, representing each of the victims and one representing
victims who names are not known. The line stretched the length of
the back steps of the Statehouse.
The roll call included a teenage girl from Cherokee County killed
by her boyfriend after he pulled a gun on her when she told him she
wanted to stop arguing and 43-year-old Ernestine Smith, stabbed to
death by her husband in Chester County just hours after police had
been called to their home.
A number of the victims left behind children, which makes the
tragedy even worse, said Rep. Gilda Cobb-Hunter, D-Orangeburg.
If South Carolina continues to top the domestic violence list,
the state will create another generation of batterers and victims,
said Cobb-Hunter, a victims' advocate for 25 years.
Communities need to do whatever they can to stop domestic
violence, "whether that is not tolerating jokes or whether that is
recognizing that it is our business," she said.
About 100 people attended the ceremony. Some were family members
of victims, clutching pictures and other mementos of their loved
ones.
Others were advocates like Vicki Bourus, director of the South
Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault in
Columbia, who has lost four people she has worked with to domestic
violence in her 17-year career.
Bourus praised McMaster for starting a program where lawyers will
work for free to help prosecute criminal domestic violence
cases.
Criminal domestic violence charges are often misdemeanors tried
in magistrate's court. Defendants can retain lawyers, but most of
the time the cases are prosecuted by the police officer who
investigated the case instead of a trained lawyer.
Bourus said programs like this can reduce South Carolina's
domestic violence deaths "if the leadership of this state is willing
to put their muscle behind this problem."