The Web site 'lets people know that
they are not statistics. It's my son. It's my children's
brother.'
Lisa Radvansky | whose
son, Chad, died in September
COLUMBIA - Hundreds of people die on
S.C. roads every year.
And chances are, many people won't know anything about the
dead.
What did 18-year-old Bobby Welch Jr.
study?
What type of surgeon did Jennifer Teuton,
19, want to be?
Until this month, both Welch and Teuton, two of the 1,059 people
who died on state highways in 2001 would likely have remained
statistics to most people.
But a Web site put together by the S.C. Highway Patrol could
change that.
In early December, the department unveiled its fatality memorial
Web site. It allows Web surfers to read tributes to auto crash
victims and see their pictures.
Highway Patrol Cmdr. Col. Russell Roark said it puts a face to
the statistics and also allows relatives of crash victims to connect
with each other. The idea came as an offshoot of the department's
practice of sending notes of condolence to the families of
victims.
A card asking for families' tributes for the Web site is now
included in the note.
"Its very therapeutic," Roark said.
So far, eight people are profiled on the Web site. Relatives of
crash victims can add their tributes by logging on to the site.
When providing information, they are asked to consider
introspective details, like what they miss most about the person or
what people should know about them.
One of the eight people - John Morgan Long Sr. from Statham, Ga.
- died in 2002 of injuries received in a crash along U.S. 17 in
Murrells Inlet.
His daughter Patty posted this on the Web site: "John, my daddy,
was a one-of-a-kind person. He could go anywhere in the world, and
he really did do a lot of traveling in his life; and he never met a
stranger."
With Lisa Radvansky's contribution, visitors learn a little more
about her 17-year-old son, Chad.
He died Sept. 6 when his sport utility vehicle flipped near
Marion, throwing him from the vehicle.
"To put my son's face there, so that he can be remembered, is
important to me," Radvansky said. "He was special to a lot of
people."
Since her son's death, Radvansky has worked with the department
to speak about seat belt awareness.
Some of the contributions are highly personal.
For example, Welch's mother described what the loss of her son
did to her family.
"We cry every day because we miss our baby so much," she wrote on
the Web site. "I ... started having panic and anxiety attacks the
day my son was killed. I have never experienced these scary attacks
before my son was taken from this world."
Other contributions remind visitors how much their loved ones are
missed:
Mark Craps, 37, of Pelion, enjoyed the holidays and trying to get
everyone together to eat. Craps died Oct. 29 in Lexington
County.
A Brooklyn, N.Y., native, Wesley Holland came to South Carolina
and had no trouble making friends. The 29-year-old died Jan. 18 in
Beaufort.
Tammy Darlene Prosser, 28, of Florence, left behind a son when
she died March 2, 2002.
The tributes are mostly unedited, said Sherri Iacobelli, public
information director for the department.
Offensive, libelous information is not published, nor are details
of the wreck and investigation.
She said the department plans to help the families contact each
other, either through chat rooms or e-mail.
Once the Web site gets enough tributes, the memorials will be
broken down by year or by month.
Roark wants both parents and their children to look at the
site.
"I think it would be very educational for younger drivers," Roark
said, adding that the site should be part of the curriculum in
drivers education classes.
"I think its great," Radvansky said. "It lets people know that
they are not statistics. It's my son. It's my children's
brother."
Memorial Web
site
The S.C. Highway Patrol's site profiles crash victims who died on
state roadways. Families can post tributes at www.schp.org/inmemoryof