THE UNTOLD STROM Letters reveal years-long
relationship Strom, Nancy wrote years
before wedding By JOHN
MONK Staff
Writer
Tongues began to wag across South Carolina in the late ’60s as
the late U.S. Sen. Strom Thurmond corresponded with a young beauty
queen.
Thurmond was 64, and the young woman, Nancy Moore, was 20 —
barely out of her teens.
“It seems disgusting to me that people seem to thrive on rumors,”
one of Thurmond’s relatives, cousin-in-law Addie Elise Byrd, wrote
to him on May 17, 1967. “Anyhow, I’m assuming that the reports of
you and Nancy Moore are false.”
Six days later Thurmond wrote back, saying, “With regard to the
rumor that you have heard, it seems that this rumor has gone all
over the State. I am not engaged to anyone, but it seems that some
people are intent upon spreading rumors to this effect.”
Thurmond was not engaged. But he was in close contact with Nancy
Moore, who in 18 months would become his second wife.
Newly discovered letters in the Clemson University archives shed
light on that early relationship between Thurmond and the then-Nancy
Moore.
And the letters show they began writing each other about mutual
experiences several years earlier than previously known.
Thurmond’s marriage in 1968 helped his political career by
immunizing him against charges he was getting too old. Over the next
eight years, the couple had four children.
The couple separated in the early ’90s but remained married.
Nancy Moore Thurmond did not return phone calls seeking comment on
their courtship.
Nancy Moore had grown up in Aiken, where Thurmond had practiced
law. In the fall of 1964, she enrolled in Duke University.
In July 1965, after her freshman year at Duke, she won the title
of Miss South Carolina, based on beauty, talent and swimsuit
competitions.
In August, weeks after winning Miss South Carolina, Nancy visited
Washington and spent time with Thurmond.
She was 18, a rising Duke sophomore.
He was 62, a widower, a diehard segregationist, a former
governor, a war hero, and, for 10 years, a U.S. senator. A magazine
that month noted Thurmond kept barbells behind his desk, did 59
pushups a day and cycled 20 miles every weekend.
That summer, according to letters at Clemson, Thurmond was
telling people that he had “no plans to marry again. I am giving my
whole life to my work of trying to preserve our Constitutional form
of government and to save our people from tyranny.”
But about the time Thurmond wrote that letter, he also was taking
small steps that would ensure he wouldn’t remain a bachelor.
Thurmond always had given little mementos and photos to visitors
to his office. That August, he gave Nancy an apron from Portugal and
a knife, tips on health food and a photo of himself.
On Aug. 13, 1965, Moore sent the veteran politician a two-page
handwritten letter, thanking him for the gifts and gushing with
enthusiasm over the “fabulous 24 hours I spent in Washington.”
She wrote, “You might be interested to know that I am planning to
learn to prepare protein breakfasts in your apron from Portugal and
I keep my hands clean for ‘politicking’ with your knife — so many
thanks!”
She added, “It is unbelievable when I think of all the things we
did — and I really learned a great deal about our Capital!”
She finished, “And thank you, Senator, for your time and
hospitality. Someday I shall repay you for your kindnesses. I shall
be following you in the news and I hope to see you soon!”
Moore and Thurmond stayed in touch over the winter.
In the summer of 1966, Nancy worked in Thurmond’s Washington
office as a clerk.
That fall, she returned to Duke, planning to work at Thurmond’s
office again in the summer of 1967. Letters show Thurmond took a
personal interest in her summer job.
On March 16, 1967, Thurmond wrote the 20-year-old Duke student to
say he had made arrangements for her to stay “at the Young Women’s
Christian Home during your tenure on my staff this summer. ... I
will arrange to place you on the payroll effective June 1, but I
understand that you will be reporting for duty on Monday, June
5.”
That summer, rumors flew that Thurmond might be getting
married.
In an Aug. 4, 1967, letter, a friend wrote Thurmond, “I heard you
were getting married. ... If so the very best to you.”
Six days later, Thurmond wrote back. “I have no marriage plans,
by the way.”
At the end of the summer, Moore dropped out of Duke and
transferred to the University of South Carolina in Columbia. In
leaving Duke, Moore gave up a spot at one of the nation’s top
colleges for a less academically prestigious institution.
Thurmond himself broke the news of Moore’s decision to her
brother, Paul, then living in Alaska.
In a Sept. 7, 1967, letter, Thurmond wrote, “She has decided to
leave Duke and enter the University of South Carolina this fall, and
I think she will like it there. She is very happy over the idea of
going to Carolina.”
After Nancy entered USC, Thurmond wrote her a two-sentence letter
on Sept. 18, 1967.
“Dear Nancy: Mr. Taylor wanted you to have the box that is being
forwarded to you under separate cover for your cooperation and
assistance in the matter of the towels. I hope you are doing nicely,
and with best wishes, Sincerely, Strom Thurmond.”
On Dec. 8, 1968, Thurmond announced his engagement to Moore. They
were married two weeks later, on Dec. 22, 1968.
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