DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is a complicated problem that does not lend
itself to a single answer. Rather, since it involves not only
violence but also societal attitudes toward women, their economic
status, their self-esteem, the most intimate personal relationships
and all the emotion that results when things go bad, it requires a
variety of traditional and innovative approaches.
But one thing that is not complicated is this: In 2001, women
were killed by men at a higher rate in South Carolina than in any
other state. We’ve had that distinction before, and we consistently
land in the top five. And as long as our state remains one of the
most deadly for women, as long as women in our state are killed by
men more than twice as often as the national average — not to
mention all the victims who live through their abuse — we have not
done enough.
Clearly, part of the problem is that we are more violent than
much of the country; our state also routinely lands near the top in
murders and other violent crimes. That is itself a problem that we
must not accept; and beyond that, it’s not a complete explanation
for our alarming numbers.
In recent years, our state has taken several smart steps to
combat domestic violence. We passed laws requiring police to make
arrests on domestic violence calls even if the victim decided she
didn’t want to press charges. When The State discovered that those
charges weren’t being prosecuted, then-Attorney General Charlie
Condon ordered solicitors not to drop cases just because the victim
didn’t want to testify. Lawmakers increased the money going to abuse
victims’ shelters and made it easier for victims to get restraining
orders. This year, they made serious and repeated domestic abuse
charges felonies, increasing the penalties. Most recently, Attorney
General Henry McMaster started using volunteer attorneys to
prosecute domestic violence cases in magistrate court, where too
often abusers were being found not guilty because they had lawyers
and the state’s case was being presented by police officers.
Many of these changes haven’t had time to work yet. But given
what a serious problem we have, there is every reason to believe
they alone won’t go far enough.
Some things we can do are simple. We can prohibit convicted
batterers from owning guns. We can reverse a new law that allows
first-time batterers to have their records expunged; it’s important
to keep those convictions on record, because sentences are pretty
light until you get into repeat offenses. We can finish the job of
taking the most serious cases more seriously, by putting them in the
category of crimes for which offenders have to serve most of their
sentences. We can do a better job of providing shelters and other
support services for victims, so they feel safe leaving their
abusers.
Other changes aren’t so simple. We have to change our attitudes.
We have to teach boys and men that women aren’t their property. We
have to teach girls and women that they are better off leaving
abusive partners, no matter how difficult that seems. We have to
teach churches and other support groups to put their support behind
those ideas. We have to teach police that stopping domestic violence
is a central part of their job. We have to teach judges —
particularly magistrates — that society does not tolerate domestic
violence, and that society will not tolerate them if they continue
to slap offenders on the wrist. Until we make significant progress
on all those fronts, domestic violence will continue to be a major
problem in our
state.